Orientation

John zonked after the ChalleNGE orientation

Ever since John informed us that he wanted to join the military Chappy and I have done our best to be honest about what is required physically, mentally and emotionally. Starting, of course, with the "mind" games and goals of basic training. Today we attended the orientation for the Texas ChalleNGe Academy program we are hoping John will be accepted into. After spending the night in one of the nearest towns (an hour away) we drove to the almost non-existent town of Sheffield. Almost as soon as we arrived and stood in line, the candidates were instructed (loudly and firmly) to tuck in their shirts and come to the front. Immediately, dressed in gray sweats, white t-shirts, and sneakers, they were immersed in the physical and somewhat mental aspects of the program--a taste of what to expect if they are accepted and return in a couple of months.

We as parents were led to a gymnasium and spent the next couple of hours waiting for our name to be called to "come on down". This was the stage where we got all our check boxes marked-- did we have all forms in? Fortunately for John, we are only missing two items. Then we heard from the program director-- he answered a lot of our questions and eased our mind about what we were expecting the program to do, ie John could graduate with a GED or even a high school diploma after the end of the 5.5mo term. After the presentation we waited, ate lunch, and took a tour of the facilities. Then we waited again. We were anxious for John-- was he gonna stick it out? Give it his all? Show that he made of sterner stuff? Then it was time for the candidates to reunite with their parents. We waited again as many of the candidates came out rushing and crying into the parents arms, or with frowns of frustration on their faces; some just looked scared. Finally John emerged and he was smiling. Did he enjoy it? No, but he knew what to expect and it was exactly what he thought, and we said, it would be.

We asked him if he felt he could handle the physical aspect for two weeks straight times two (each day)? Would the benefit outweigh the pain? He said yes, it was worth it and yes he could do it. (We thought he could too.)

Now it is all in the hands of God and the review board. We pray, for John's confidence, that he is accepted (we were given that he is a great candidate based on his needs and desires, so we are very hopeful). If you would join us in prayer we'd appreciate it.